“Indecision may or may not be my problem.”This is something worth mentioning. Born in late September I am a Libra. Libras are rumored to be indecisive and I can confirm this because I can so identify with it. As I was born on 24th September I got the worst of both star signs. Virgo and Libra. Lucky me. So not only am I a controlling neat freak, I am indecisive too. It starts out by choosing an outfit to wear to work. Okay, most women struggle with that. I cannot decide for ages what to wear. It has gone so far that I grab what is next in my closet before I go nuts in the mornings.
My husband is born on 25th August. So he has the best of the Leo and Virgo star signs. He is a very strict person when needed, always gets what he wants and he has great social skills. He thinks he does me a favor by letting me pick things. Where do you want to go tonight for dinner? Should we go and exchange money now while the rate is good or do you want to wait to see if it goes up further? Would you like to accompany to a business dinner? What movie do you want to see? Questions like this make me break out in cold sweat. The time it takes me to ponder about this you could erect a church of medieval magnitude.
My hubby loves me, just as I love him. I know that and he wants me to decide things too. However I can’t which he can’t grasp the concept of. He is deciding things all the time. I have to balance reasons, have to carefully ponder the possibilities before I can speak out. Funnily enough when he gives me a list of choices and decides we do this and I don’t like it, all of the sudden I can say immediately “but that is not what I wanted”. So deep inside I know what I want immediately. It seems I just can’t say it out loud. Life is so complicated. Are you one that ponders before reaching a decision or do you let your gut decide?