Friday, September 28, 2007

Indecision

To pick up today’s funny quote by Jimmy Buffet
“Indecision may or may not be my problem.”
This is something worth mentioning. Born in late September I am a Libra. Libras are rumored to be indecisive and I can confirm this because I can so identify with it. As I was born on 24th September I got the worst of both star signs. Virgo and Libra. Lucky me. So not only am I a controlling neat freak, I am indecisive too. It starts out by choosing an outfit to wear to work. Okay, most women struggle with that. I cannot decide for ages what to wear. It has gone so far that I grab what is next in my closet before I go nuts in the mornings.

My husband is born on 25th August. So he has the best of the Leo and Virgo star signs. He is a very strict person when needed, always gets what he wants and he has great social skills. He thinks he does me a favor by letting me pick things. Where do you want to go tonight for dinner? Should we go and exchange money now while the rate is good or do you want to wait to see if it goes up further? Would you like to accompany to a business dinner? What movie do you want to see? Questions like this make me break out in cold sweat. The time it takes me to ponder about this you could erect a church of medieval magnitude.

My hubby loves me, just as I love him. I know that and he wants me to decide things too. However I can’t which he can’t grasp the concept of. He is deciding things all the time. I have to balance reasons, have to carefully ponder the possibilities before I can speak out. Funnily enough when he gives me a list of choices and decides we do this and I don’t like it, all of the sudden I can say immediately “but that is not what I wanted”. So deep inside I know what I want immediately. It seems I just can’t say it out loud. Life is so complicated. Are you one that ponders before reaching a decision or do you let your gut decide?

7 comments:

Misguided Mommy said...

first of all looove the new blog. second i totally call my son a little shit...all the time, i am a terrible horrible person.

next up i'm a scorpio and my husband is a virgo. can i just tell you this man can't even handle how sexual me and my scorpio personality are. interestingly enough the most long term relationships of my life were with virgos. i realllly don't get along with capricorns in relationships.

some how between the virgo and the scorpio we managed to pop out a leo....we are all screwed up over here

J said...

I also ponder a lot over decisions and though I know what I want, I always seek approval by asking others first. If they have different opinions than mine, I get confused and so I have to stick out to what I really would want to decide on. So in short, I still follow what I want. I'm a Taurus and I'm pretty stubborn!

Kat said...

@ misguided mommy, you rule..calling your son a little shit *LMAO* I hope he won't develop a disorder when he gets older. Therapy is expensive :). Just kidding.

@ J, that is weird. Maybe we should just demand what we want and speak our minds. I will try that for a change and see if I fare better with it.

Patty said...

I LOVE the new blog!!! And the picture! You are GOREGOUS!!!

I'm a Taurus to a T! Stubborn has hell. I make all decisions for everyone unless people tell me otherwise. I am a considerate person by nature so I can compromise but secretly I always want to get my way. Which is probably why I am still single? LOL! Who cares! I'm me & I'm happy!

Virgo and Taurus make a great match. Two of my ex's were Virgo's and my best friend is on the cusp of virgo/leo which explains why we get along so well.

Kat said...

I'm glad you like the new design of my blog. It took me forever to decide on one.

Funny how you match with one star sign and don't get along with another.

@Patty, thanks for the compliment. It made me blush :)

Mags said...

Well, I was born on July 28th and am an indecisive stubborn woman-not a good combo! LOL

Colette, aka Lil Sis said...

Thanks for the comment on my post! I am a Saggitarius so, I hate plans. I like to be spur of the moment, which often makes it hard for me to stay in one place too long. 7 years in the South has just about been enough for me.

My hubby hates it because he is a planning freak, and I have done my best to accomodate him. Most of the time though he has to sneak things into our schedule to get me to go along with it. LOL